Love Magic

Ah, the notorious love spell. It's the first one everyone asks for, and it also happens to be one of the trickiest to accomplish, despite the immense resources available on the topic.

For a good introduction to the ethics of love magic, look at Silver's Spells for Love by Silver RavenWolf, where she makes two very important points:

1) Love magic is temporary, every relationship goes through phases, and you must think of any magic you do like lighter fluid, it's a catalyst, but the real work of love is still up to you.
2) The best love spells are slow workers. If you're asking the universe for a soul mate, don't expect said soul mate to conveniently appear in time for Valentine's Day. Give it some time. It's worth it.

For starters: Silver suggests that before doing any intense love magic, you take a moment to gauge where you are in your life and what it is that you truly want out of any magic you work. Oftentimes what we think we want ends up being the opposite of what we truly need, so practice some self-reflection before diving in.

Drawing Down Love
Supplies: 1 white rose, 1 pink taper candle, scratch paper, red pen, 1 pink construction paper heart, 1 pink ribbon.

Timing: full moon

Remove the thorns from the rose and place next to your lit candle. Say, "love come calling, to my own self be true." Write down on the scratch paper what you think love is. Re-read. Were you honest? Make any necessary adjustments, then write it again on your pink heart, and place the heart under the candle. Go where you are in view of the moon, and hold the rose out to it, saying "With this rose I draw to me the love and joy I need from thee." Take a deep breath and read aloud what you have written. Take another deep breath, and say "As I will, so mote it be." Take seven rose petals and place them on the heart, roll securely, and tie with the pink ribbon. Hold the heart up to the moon and say "As the wheel of the year turns, I draw toward me the desires emblazoned upon this heart" and seal the ribbon with some wax from your candle. Put in a safe place, and your magic has begun!

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For a related article, check out Wiccan Magic for Lovers by Mabel Iam


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Cottage Witchery author:
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Wicca Classes
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An excerpt from A Romantic Guide to Handfasting by Anna Franklin

In ancient Ireland, Teltown Marriages were temporary unions entered into at Lughnasa, the festival celebrated at the beginning of August. At Larganeeny (Lag an Aonaigh, the hollow of the fair), there was an oral tradition, recorded in the nineteenth century, that a form of marriage was held there in Pagan times. According to this legend, a number of young men would go to the north side of a high wall, while a number of young women went to the south side. A woman would then put her hand through a hole in the wall, and a man would take it, guided in his choice only by the appearance of the hand. The two who had thus joined hands by blind chance were then obliged to live together for a year and a day. At the end of that time they appeared together at the Rath (Fort) of Teltown, and if they were not satisfied, they obtained a deed of separation and were entitled to go to Larganeeny again to get a new partner. If they were satisfied, a longer-term arrangement was entered into.

One of the largest Lughnasa fairs was held at Kirkwall in the Orkney Islands off the coast of Scotland. The fair lasted eleven days, and taking a sexual partner for its duration was a common practice. Such couples were known as Lammas brothers and sisters. For couples thinking of a slightly longer-term commitment, this was a traditional time for handfasting. Couples would join hands through a holed stone, such as the ancient Stone of Odin at Stenness, and plight their troth for a year and a day. Many such temporary unions became permanent arrangements. The handfasting ritual was just one of the forms of marriages permitted under the ancient Brehon law. The same law declared how the property would be divided if the couple split up, and how any children of the marriage would be cared for.

It wasn't until the middle of the nineteenth century that the registration of marriages was required by the government in Ireland.



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