Color of the day: Brown
Incense of the day: Rue
Light a pink seven-day candle.
Take a sheet of paper and write down the qualities about yourself that you think people find lovable. These may be physical attributes (your eyes, your hair) or your personality (your generosity, your humor). Then, on the other side, list those qualities that need improving. Don't be too harsh, but be honest.
Place the paper on your altar, with the positive list facing up, and place the candle over it. When that candle has burned down, replace it with a yellow candle (for new beginnings), and flip the paper every few days to remind yourself of your goals.