Using the mouth and, especially, the tongue to stimulate the anus. 

Something that excites or produces sexual arousal. 

A state of pure love, sometimes call real love.

An acronym for a variety of sexual practices that include: bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism. 

First described by Colette Dowling in her book by this name, it presents the thesis that some women have a fear of independence and an unconscious desire for someone (a metaphorical "Prince Charming") to take care of them. Dowling claims that this "complex" becomes increasingly obvious as women age and is a major cause of women choosing to stay in a dysfunctional or even abusive relationship.

Finding pleasure, especially sexual pleasure, in experiences that are commonly deemed to be painful or humiliating. 

A term that refers to a society ruled by men and that gives women little or no power. See matriarchal. 

A system where descent is traced through the father. Children take the father’s name. European and American societies are patrilineal. See matrilineal. 

The manifestation of physical phenomena such as table tipping, apports, the appearance of unusual lights, etc., usually during a séance. Usually it requires a state of trance on the part of the medium.

A sexual position in which the person being penetrated is on top of, astride, and facing the feet of the person on the bottom. 

From the Marquis de Sade. Deriving pleasure, especially sexual pleasure, from inflicting physical or emotional pain on others. 

See: soul mate.

1. A non-physical entity that becomes a romantic interest for a man or woman.
2. A non-physical partner used by a magician during a sex magic ritual.
3. A non-physical entity such as an astral body or ghost who remains near a living person due to close (some would say too close) emotional ties, real or imagined, to that person. 

Inducing orgasm through mental activity alone. 

Deriving sexual pleasure from watching people in various stages of undress and/or in sexual activity.