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| For this spell, you will need a pillar candle in your favorite color and a taper candle in a healing color (it's okay if they're the same color). Take some time to decide what it is that you have to offer a friendship and what you most need from a friendship. Chances are they're the same, or very similar, and are along the lines of nurturing.
Carve the pillar with symbols of your strongest needs (for example, a dollar sign for money or a heart for love or physical health). Then take the taper and light it, letting some melted wax form. Hold the healing taper candle over the pillar, and let the healing-color wax fill in the "holes" in your spirit. Say: "As the moon grows, let my light and my love for myself grow. I AM my own best friend." Follow up by gifting yourself with a favorite cookie and drink for cakes and wine, followed by a "date"-a favorite dinner and movie perhaps. Focus on treating yourself like a best friend and let the magic happen! |
