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| Sometimes it's hard to get along with those closest to us, through no fault on anyone's part. For this spell, write down all the things that irritate you about a family member, roommate, or neighbor. Then, on another piece of paper, write down all the things you value about the person.
Burn the paper of irritations, reserving the ash in a small bowl. As the paper burns, say: "I release attachment to these emotions and hurts." Take some lavender for peace and harmony, lemon for friendship, and sage for wisdom, and sprinkle them generously into the bowl of ashes. Imbue the mixture with love and understanding by reading aloud the list of all the things you love about the person while doing so. Sprinkle the herbal mixture in any space that lies between the two of you. Make a promise to yourself to speak with that person as soon as possible, to work things out. Stand your ground, but do so in kindness and compassion. |
